The Three Myths

William Pollack discusses three myths about boys. They are:

1. Boys will be Boys

This myth says that boys will naturally be agressive and violent because of their testosterone. It says that basically they are a slave to their biology, and that no amount of nurturing will keep them from their insensativity, risky behaviors, and aggression.

2. Boys Should be Boys

This myth says that boys must fullfill the stereotype and become that agrressive man. He should never act like a girl but always be manly.

3. Boys are Toxic

This third myth says that their is something inherently wrong with boys, treating them as if they were psychologically unaware, emotionally unsocialized creatures.

In his book he gives answers to each of these myths. I highly recomend this book to everyone.